Being a youth mentor can be one of the most rewarding jobs on the planet. Not only are you serving children in need… but also contributing to the world for a better tomorrow as these children grow into adults. However, while youth mentoring can seem a little intimidating to beginners, once you know a few tricks of the trade, you will see just how easily you can impact a child’s life for the better.
1. Be honest.
Nothing brings you to the same level as a child quicker than honesty. Be honest about similar struggles you face. This makes you human and if you are approachable, your youth will be more willing to open up to you.
2. Set boundaries.
Know when to notice warning signs that might indicate that the young person you are mentoring does not need help that you might not be able to supply. For example, if you suspect that the child cannot be helped through counseling alone, you may want to recommend the child’s guardians to a good mental health doctor in your area. They can help to get the child on the right track to feeling better and controlling any underlying conditions that may be contributing to any symptoms they may be experiencing.
3. Be available.
Always make yourself available in your youth mentoring. You can find ways to connect and check in… even when you cannot be there face to face. Social media has made it possible to encourage your young clients from right where you are. However, this also means making sure that when you are listening to your client… you are LISTENING. Don’t check out. Listen. You might miss the forest for the trees if you don’t.
Youth mentoring is one of the most important jobs the world over. This is because our children are our greatest asset. Not only do they bring such joy into the lives of their friends and families, but also into the world itself. They are the future of our spinning orb and helping them to handle their hurts now, can save a cycle of hurt down the road.
When in doubt, talk to more experienced counselors. Many will be happy to help you in areas that you feel that you are lacking in. Doing this will help you to get the advice you need and the children the help that they need making for a real win/win.
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