Any orgasm can be regarded as a good orgasm. But what a lot of people with vulva don’t know is that they can experience different forms of orgasm, better known as tantric orgasm. Tantric sex and energy healers will hover their hands over a man’s belly and run them up and down his whole body; he then groans and convulses.
Tantric orgasm is spiritually necessary because they’re going to get you out of your head and into your body. At the moment of your orgasm, you lose your ego — the feeling of being separated from the source. The state of orgasm is also a state of extremely high energy — like electricity flowing from your genitals across your spine and the entire nervous system. This gives you the “orgasmic glow” all day — the sexual chi charge coming from within.
According to some school of thought, the average lovemaking session is ten minutes, and a man’s orgasm typically lasts ten seconds. But tantric orgasm appear to last one to four hours, and even men considerably older can remain erect the whole time and have half an hour of orgasm. It sounds exhausting, and you move tantric energy to different organs; in the process, sex becomes revitalizing.
To achieve longer hours of orgasm, you might have to incorporate some techniques — some experts say you have to introduce seventy-five hours of exercise, which seems to preclude any partner with whom you are not already intimate. And even the easiest activities are more emotionally draining than full-bored sex, say, on the third date, when you’re yet be very familiar with her or him.
Tantric sexology needs you to be entirely present — to engage body and soul — and you wouldn’t want to go that route with just anyone who happens to turn you on.
The good news is that Tantric sexology is not “goal-oriented,” which means that you don’t have to work hard to learn what to do. The idea is getting your mind off orgasm and instead concentrating on making foreplay fun and satisfying before you’re ready to take it to its natural end.
It is not that easy; delaying orgasm, according to tantric sex experts, requires that you use different methods, including meditative techniques, breath control, and tantra massage.
You can certainly have that long hours of orgasm if you’re willing to go the whole hog to make it happen. Your partner will surely be thankful if you decide to leverage tantric sexology and make it part of your relationship.
